She’s Wild, Deeply Wild

She’s wild, deeply wild. A feral and hot restlessness inside of her; she’s driven and strong. She can do things that others cannot. She feels near-constant yearning mixed with frustration. She gets things done and well. But, things move too slow for her. When she wants something, she wants it now. She wants it fast and lasting. She wants to feel it in every cell, every sinew, every pore and plane. She wants to carry experience inside of her and hold it forever.


What she really wants is pure freedom, peace, a life of contemplation, a life of feeling, but she doesn’t get to experience very much of this. She can’t have what she really wants because, well, it would ruin the current state of things. She would have to turn her back on the predictable, known present and head into the cool, silent, and mossy unknown of a different reality, a new way of being and that’s just too scary. But, the vista beyond the fence, calls to her, daily. And, like every other day, she looks away, throws herself into the tasks of which she’s demanded. She charges ahead with energy, fire, passion, and courage. She does her job and doesn’t complain. 

She does not utter her deepest dreams and desires. She just thinks about them over and over. Obsessively. Twisting the thoughts, wringing from each one, a small drop of nectar that she can taste and then feel spreading through her like sugar on oats. She holds her fantasies in and reveals only the barest hint of that dense world inside, the universe behind her large, dark eyes, her full lips showing a soft, half-smile. She is an utter mystery to most. But, don’t mistake her oft sanguine expression as an indicator of purity. She’s utterly wild, prone to fierce desires, deeply ingratiating, untamed, and aching desires. She is nuclear.


Her fire, her panting restlessness is only calmed by three things: (A) Being alone with the earth. For example, standing on a remote mountain or a beach or at the edges of a lake or on some lonely, tree-lined path with no one else in sight, staring into the wide sky, regardless of the weather, (B) Movement, be it dancing, walking, hiking, or riding and (C) Looking into his eyes. When she sees him, the one to whom she does not belong, her skin ripples with excitement; she dances across the grass toward him and greets him with all of herself. His eyes have this crazy ability to immediately bring her to the center of herself, help her simply be there in that moment. And, the moments with him are sacred, soft as grass, and fleeting, but she doesn’t care. Seeing him walking toward her with some delectable gift in each hand, holds her here, keeps her steady, keeps her working. Will she ever be truly tamed? Possibly. But, if so, he’s the only one who can do it. And, he knows this. He knows.


Years and years ago, I took a four-week fiction writing class. One of the exercises the teacher gave us was to write a biography of someone or something. At the time, I wrote a biography for a stretch of road. I know, it’s weird, right? But, it was so much fun to imagine the road as a sentient being with its own thoughts, emotions, and needs. So, I was sitting here thinking about the class and the exercise and thought that I’d try it again. Can you guess the protagonist of the above story?

19 thoughts on “She’s Wild, Deeply Wild

    1. BigLizzy Post author

      Sweet Anastasia,
      So, so glad that this post resonates with you, my friend. Thank you for sharing your thoughts here. I seriously smile at the power that we all hold inside and how we can help each other get to greater levels of awareness and connection. It is my purpose here and I suspect that we all know this and share this purpose on a core level. We are supposed to love. When my words can hint at that deep reservoir of love, joy, and acceptance inside each of us, it is so, so satisfying. Love to you, sister.

    1. BigLizzy Post author


      Ding, ding, ding, ding!!! You win! That’s exactly right, sis. Thank you so much for the read and taking a guess here. I love your writing, too, my sweet friend.


    1. BigLizzy Post author

      LOL! Deeann, Yes, yes I am. It’s totally true. The world needs more romance, even if this was about a horse who loves someone. 🙂 Thanks for reading this and commenting, my sweet friend.

  1. marydpierce

    I didn’t guess a horse. I read it a couple of times, but, truly, I kept getting swept away by the sensuous beauty of the language, I was having too much fun reading it. At one point, I thought you might be talking about your bike.

    1. BigLizzy Post author

      Mary! Great comment, my sis. Love it. It totally could be about my bike or anything else, really. Love is love and when we feel it, the whole world shifts into a higher vibration. I believe that animals feel this as do supposedly inanimate objects. We aren’t aware of it is all. Thank you so much for reading and leaving your kind comments. It makes me beam with love and joy to know that others get a little boost from my ruminations. Hugs to you, honey!

    1. BigLizzy Post author

      I love YOU so much, Melanie. Thanks for reading and commenting, babe. Hey, you’re a horse woman, right? Did you get that it was a horse? 🙂

      1. Melanie

        I’m not a horse woman, no, but I did get the sense of the horse in the story. They’re beautiful magnificent creatures, fierce in their resolve, yet as tender as strong.

      2. BigLizzy Post author

        Melanie, Ah, well, very cool! Thanks for letting me know. I just assumed that you were a horse woman because you barbeque in a dress and cowboy boots, which I totally LOVE, by the way, and which cracks me up, honey. 🙂

    1. BigLizzy Post author

      Kim, Heh heh. Yep, you get it. 🙂 Thanks for stopping by and reading some of my posts, sis. I’m headed over to check out your blog, too. XOXO

    1. BigLizzy Post author

      Hi, GG,

      Thank you for reading so many of my posts, babe. I love it.

      So, that stretch of road bio was from a college paper that I wrote in the late 90s. I’ll see if I can dig it up since, well, I’m an enormous pack-rat and am almost certain that I kept it. Yes, I’m that nerd who kept all of her college text books and papers. All of them. hahahaha…have I read any of them in 10 years, no. But, I have them, dammit!

      Thanks again for so diligently reading my stuff, sis. I’m truly honored.

      Love, your friend, Lizzy


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